Requirements to file for a New Jersey divorce
You or your spouse need to have lived in New Jersey for at least a year before filing for divorce
If the grounds for the divorce is adultery, there is no required residency period, but you or your spouse will need to provide an affidavit attesting that one of you is a New Jersey resident at the time of the filing.
You need to file for divorce in a county where you or your spouse live or work
You must supply three copies of the Complaint as well as the following documents:’
Filing Letter to the Court—Complaint Form
Certification of Insurance
Certification of Notification of Complementary Dispute Resolution
Family Part Case Information Statement
Confidential Litigant Information Sheet
You must also provide filing fees at the time you submit your complaint.
Grounds for a NJ divorce
New Jersey permits both “no-fault” and fault divorces. There are two types of no-fault divorces permitted in New Jersey:
You can file a no-fault divorce if you have been living in separate residences for at least 18 months prior to filing
You can file a no-fault divorce based on irreconcilable differences. You and your spouse must have experienced an inability to continue in the marriage for at least 6 months.
New Jersey law also permits fault divorces based on the following grounds:
Adultery
Willful desertion for at least 12 months
Extreme mental or physical cruelty
Chemical dependency
Institutionalization for mental illness
Imprisonment
Deviant sexual behavior (New Jersey Statutes – Title 2 a – Chapters: 34-2)
Step 1: Starting the divorce process
The actual document you will need to file to begin the divorce process is the Complaint for Divorce form (Find all New Jersey divorce forms here). In addition to the Complaint, you will need to also submit
Filing Letter to the Court—Complaint Form
Certification of Insurance
Certification of Notification of Complementary Dispute Resolution
Family Part Case Information Statement
Confidential Litigant Information Sheet
You will need to submit these documents to the County Clerk of the State Court in which you or your spouse live or work. The filing fees are dependent upon the jurisdiction but typically are about $250. At the time of filing, you will receive a docket number which will help you keep track of your case.
Step 2: New Jersey legal notice process
Under New Jersey law, once you have filed for divorce, you must provide legal notice to your spouse. The easiest method of accomplishing this is providing copies of all submitted forms to your spouse and having them sign a receipt stating they were legally served. If your spouse refuses this method, then you may use a variety of other methods:
Mail—you may mail the complaint and summons to your spouse’s home address using certified or registered mail
Attorney—your attorney can serve the divorce papers in person
Sheriff’s deputy
Professional process server
Competent adult—anyone over the age of 18 without an interest in the divorce case serve the papers
Once your spouse, who is designated as the Defendant in the complaint, receives the divorce papers, they have 35 days to answer. The responses to a Complaint for Divorce are:
The defendant may file an Answer, which may agree with all of the points in the complaint, or disagree with some or all of the points
The defendant may file an Appearance which agrees to the divorce but disagrees on certain issues like spousal support or property division
The defendant may file a Counterclaim which provides additional grounds for divorce
If the defendant does not file a response within 35 days, the judge may issue a default judgment, in which the judge is likely to agree to all of the requests in the Complaint for Divorce.
Step 3: Contested or Uncontested divorce?
The divorce process is not an easy one. This difficult procedure is likely to stir up many emotions including anger, grief, and acrimony, which is why it is in your best interest to resolve all of the major issues like property and debt distribution, child custody and spousal support before you initiate the legal process. If you and your spouse can produce an amicable settlement which should be signed and notarized, you are both likely to save thousands of dollars in legal fees and months of time.
When filing a divorce in New Jersey you have two options:
Uncontested Divorce (Lower Cost)
To qualify for an uncontested divorce you must meet these criteria:
Have an agreement regarding child custody and support, tax deductions and exemptions, property division, alimony
Been married for less than five years
A settlement agreement eliminates the need for a trial
If you are involved in an uncontested divorce, you may be able to complete the procedure without an attorney, which can save you a great deal of money
New Jersey allows uncontested divorces to proceed to a final hearing where the judge review the agreement and sign the final divorce decree
Contested Divorce (Higher Cost)
You and your spouse will likely have to go to trial where the judge will make the ultimate decision regarding any disputed issues
You will almost assuredly need to hire an attorney to protect your interests
Prior to a trial, your attorney will need to conduct discovery which investigates all of the major issues of the divorce. This may include witness interviews, document requests, and evidence examination.
Discovery may require weeks or months of additional time
Many attorneys will delegate their investigative responsibilities to junior partners or private investigators.
Your and your spouse’s attorney may spend weeks attempting to negotiate an acceptable agreement, but if negotiations fail, a trial will be required
In a trial, there is no guarantee that you will receive the outcome you desire
A contested divorce can cost in the tens of thousands of dollars.
Step 4: DIY or attorney assisted divorce?
Self-Representation (Lowest Cost)
The divorce process can be a challenging process, but thousands of New Jersey residents successfully accomplish this each year without an attorney. Many of these people are able to complete this procedure by utilizing the services of 3StepDivorce.com which guides them through each step of the process. It is important to first produce a viable settlement agreement with your spouse which details how the property will be divided, support will be provided to a spouse, and how child custody will be apportioned. Once you have an agreement, you can use 3StepDivorce.com to obtain the necessary forms for each stage of the divorce proceedings. Self-representation can save you hundreds or thousands of dollars.
Mediation (Medium Cost)
Like many other states, New Jersey encourages couples who are considering a divorce to utilize the services of a professional mediator. These professionals are not legal authorities which can bind parties to an agreement, but they do possess skills in helping resolve personal conflicts. a divorce judge may recommend a mediator prior to a trial in an attempt to produce a negotiated settlement. While most mediators cost less than attorneys, they are still more costly than conducting an uncontested divorce through self-representation.
Attorneys (Highest Cost)
If you and your spouse are unable to agree on certain issues, then the judge will appoint a trial date. You and your spouse will almost certainly need a trained litigator to conduct investigations into each party’s allegations, prepare arguments, submit appropriate documents and make arguments in open court. Most attorneys will demand a significant fee for each of these responsibilities. The more experienced your attorney is, the more likely you are to receive what you desire from the divorce, but their fees are also likely to be higher. In many complicated divorce cases, the costs can exceed $10,000.
Step 5: the 3 major issue
In almost every contested divorce, the issues of contention involve the distribution of assets and debts, child custody and support, or alimony. If you and your spouse have unresolved differences about these issues, you should understand how New Jersey courts typically treat them.
Property division
New Jersey law is based on the concept of equitable distribution which espouses fairness. The court will consider a number of factors when attempting to fairly divide property and debts.
Equitable distribution does not apply to separate property which may include
Assets from before the marriage
Gifts or inheritances
Length of marriage
Age and health of spouses
Property each spouse contributed
Financial situation of each spouse
Sacrifices made by each spouse for the other’s success
Appraised value of properties
Responsibilities for childrearing
Tax liabilities
Once the value of the property has been determined, the judge will distribute it accordingly. When a property can be divided, the judge will award the appropriate share to each spouse. If the asset is indivisible, the judge may order its sale and divide the proceeds. The judge may also award a share in a property like a business, in effect making spouses co-owners. In some cases, a judge may award an asset to one spouse while awarding another asset of similar value to the other.
Child Custody
The ultimate goal in any child custody decision is to place the child in a situation which is most conducive to his or her wellbeing. When making a decision, the judge may consider these factors:
Physical safety—any parent with a history of domestic violence is likely to be disqualified from custody or have limited access to the child. However, most courts favor shared parenting, so there must be demonstrable proof that a parent poses a physical risk to the child
Emotional engagement—courts favor keeping siblings together and will allow mature children to voice their preferences.
Shared parenting—courts will prioritize co-parenting, and attempt to provide time for both parents with the child. Any interference in these interactions on the part of one parent may lead to loss of certain parenting privileges.
Custody arrangements—if you and your spouse can agree to a parenting schedule, the judge will typically accept it. Otherwise, the court may require mediation or appoint an attorney to represent the child.
Spousal Support
Spousal support is very closely tied with property division in New Jersey. Although a formula is not used in New Jersey, the ultimate goal of spousal support is to maintain the lifestyle that both spouses experienced during the marriage, as well as sharing the financial burdens of the divorce. The judge is likely to consider the following factors when making an alimony determination:
Length of marriage
Standard of living during the marriage
Age and health of each spouse
Income and earning potential of each spouse
Financial contributions to the marriage
Tax liabilities
Property division
A judge may also decide on the type of alimony awarded.
Temporary alimony is only to sustain a spouse while the divorce is ongoing
Limited duration is for a set number of months or years and is usually awarded in cases when the marriage was of shorter duration
Rehabilitative alimony is to support a spouse while they prepare to return to the workforce.
Permanent alimony is usually awarded for longer marriages and spouses who are incapable of supporting themselves.
Step 6: Finalizing your New Jersey divorce
If you are involved in a contested divorce, you and your spouse will need to attend a trial. At the trial, the judge will hear arguments from you and your spouse and render a final decision on any disputes. This may take from one to several days. Following the trial, the judge will issue the Final Judgment of Dissolution, which finalizes the divorce.
If you and your spouse are involved in an uncontested divorce in New Jersey, the two of you will need to attend a final hearing, where the judge will ask both parties if they support the marriage agreement. Upon acceptance, the judge will then sign the Final Judgment of Dissolution.